Children's Play
Therapy
Q.
How do I know if my child needs play therapy.
A. Children who have been diagnosed with anxiety disorders, depressive
disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder, social anxiety, specific phobias
and communication disorders often benefit from some type of Play Therapy.
Q. How does play therapy work?
A. The therapist will provide a roomfull of toys, games and art materials and
will generally allow your child to pick and choose what they want to play with.
Children tend to gravitate towards certain types of toys depending on their emotional
and intellectual needs. Since play is a child's natural form of communication,
they will begin to express their thoughts and feelings symbolically through their
play. A well-trained play therapist will be able to understand this form of communication,
and will be able to slowly help the child by validating his/her feelings, and
encouraging the child to use play to try out new ways of thinking, and behaving.
Q. How long does Play Therapy usually take to complete.
A. This will depend on the reason that your child is in therapy. Longstanding
and serious problems take longer to treat. It is not unusual for a severely traumatized
child to be in play therapy for over a year. While, a child who is trying to
work through feelings about having a certain illness or learning disability,
may only be in play therapy for a few months.
Q. Do you practice Play Therapy in isolation or as part of a broader treatment
package.
A. I always involve parents or caretakers in the therapy, and never work with
a child in isolation. It is not adviseable to focus strictly on seeing a child
in play therapy, and never seeing the child's parents. The role of parents in
helping a child to adapt is so great that not to involve them in the child's
treatment would be unfair to the child.
Q. How does play therapy help a child with a phobia (a persistant irrational
fear that interferes with a patients daily life)?
A. When you allow a phobic child to use play materials, and encourage them to
play out anything they want, they will eventually play out scenes related to
their fears. Children use play to learn to master situations that frighten them.
By helping a child to symbolically play out events or situations that are frightening
to them, the child will be able to practice dealing with the situation over and
over again, until he or she finds their own symbolic solution. The therapist
will also encourage the child and family to slowly approach the actual feared
situation in real life, as the child;s anxiety becomes more manageable. Many
studies show that children's anxiety level diminshes after successfully playing
out their conflicts and fears in play therapy.
Play therapy, while not always effective in isolation, is a critical peice of
the treatment for children with phobias, disturbed interpersonal relationships,
or severe emotional trauma. It helps children to relax and communicate effectively
using a language that they intuitively understand and enjoy.